Loyal wife...from though a cheating family with dad/brother

Regardless if there is a secret A, I am past that now and don't really care.

She just let me know the divorce complain will be coming this week so I need to decide if I stay and they go our not. I am so upset and can't focus on anything

I know its over but wanted to do this the right way for my D but she is way off now.

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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....