It's all blowing up

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Rich4j,

Dude, you need to realize that the woman you're talking to is no longer the woman you married. Literally an evil alien has inhabited her body - she looks the same, but has been possessed.
Truly, that is what happened to my wife. Sounds like you're struggling with that.

In my situation, my W was/is spewing to cover her own affair, her own sin. D is the answer, since being with you reminds her of what she is doing.

Was your wife a very loyal wife, did she talk about other people cheating on their spouses, what did she say? My wife was always the very loyal sort. She liked to have a good time, but inside, when we married, when we've had our deepest discussions, it was always a 'good girl' who was scared of what might happen. That has tremendous integrity.

Then her brain fell out of her head.

If you ready my last post, someone might have picked her brain up and gave it back to her. We'll see.

I just know I've been in your place. It really is tough. You need to find ways to cope - go for walks, find a counselor, talk to your closest friends, etc. It sounds like you really care. That's good, but right now, you caring would be putting gas on the fire.

Call the lawyer. Protect yourself. But just realize anytime you converse with your wife you are most likely putting gas on the fire. The less you converse with her, the less likely the fire will grow.