LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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Hey Gang. I need help navigating this email from my WXW. Looks to me like she is trying to document her perception for future ammo.
Here's the email
"Due to your history of excessive drinking, and inability to perform your responsibilities, I.E care of our daughter, or going to work, I had to ask my parents to care for D4 while I was working Friday, Jan 22 and Sat Jan 23rd.
You then relinquished your scheduled parenting weekend of Jan 22-25th.

I will watch D4 on my regular parenting schedule Jan 29-Feb 1. Please note that because I was in fear of our daughters safety and well-being I took responsibility for her on your weekend.

I don't know if D4 will be her Wed Jan 27 or not until Friday Jan 29th. It depends on my parents being able to drive from New Mexico to bring her back. You are welcome to go get her."

Here are my thoughts. 1. The night I got drunk was WXW night. My responsibility for D4 legally begins on Friday at 6pm. She had already had her parents come and get D4. I do understand her concern but to say I would not be able to take care of my responsibility to D4 during my parenting time is completely false. 2. If we are documenting things I believe I should respond with something that says "You're responsibility for D4 while working on Friday Jan 22nd prior to 6pm is your parenting schedule. Your assumption that I would not be able to care for D4 Friday, Jan 22nd, 6PM - Monday Jan 25th 6PM is based off your fear and assumptions. I acknowledge your fear and assumption and agreed to allowing D4 to go to your parents for 5 days. Let it also be noted that due to WXW history with anger and violence I have had to remove D4 from the house on numerous occasions for fear of her safety and well being. As you stated, after your parenting class, you realize this is wrong and are going to work hard to never create conflict in front of the children again. However, this did occur again less than 2 weeks ago. You have also recently stated that you would like us to get counseling because you want us to be better, to be great. I too want this for us and have already begun counseling. I hope you are doing the same so that we can be great."