At the same time i do beleive i need her support in fixing some of those issues. Ive tried working on my listening and communication skill.
Im a little confused. Why do you need her help to fix that? You can learn how to listen and communicate with family, friends, coworkers, and random people on the street. What do you need her for?
Originally Posted By: Strngr!
I guess i should just be there for her as a ear to listen if she calls and wants to chat.
To some extenet. But remember that she FIRED you from the job of being her emotional support. So, I think listen + validate, but not more than you would with a casual acquaintance. I wouldnt go out of your way to make sure she knows how emotionally invested you are in her right now.
