Hi all. Well a very odd weekend for me. WAW took boys against our arrangement and just disappeared. I knew they would be safe and probably having fun so didn't dwell but it was strangely peaceful and I had space to breath. I closed WAW bedroom door and didn't go in there once. I went to bed exhausted friday night, slept heavy and woke up Saturday determined to carry on living. I did the cleaning, ironing etc ( nothing new for me) but also re-arranged the kitchen how I want it as WAW is moving out. I carefully stacked all her nic nacs cookbooks etc in a spare room and got it looking how I like it. I went shopping, took my pooch for a long walk, got home, did some pottering on my kit car and cooked a lovely dinner. It was strange, very peaceful and relaxing in a strange way. I had a phone call from her mobile at 10pm, no talk from her, just my eldest in fits and sobs crying his heart out because he wanted to come home. I managed to console him well enough telling him i loved him and i'm still here and excited to see them both. Sunday WAW came home. Not a word between us. But she promply went around putting the kitchin back to how she does it ( strange when she is moving out in a week) She also is selling one of her cars. She came in sheepishly an hour later asking for my help (I'm a mechanic) but I told her, "sorry, it is no longer anything to do with me or any of my business. If the guy buying it want to book it in with me i'd take a look but would charge as a normal customer" She is nothing but hostile towards me but I don't care. i spend my time with my boys and do my thing. I'd welcome feed back as it has been a major step for me....
me45,W43 S9,S5 T15yrs M10yrs BD 4/07/15 W wants D 4/07/15 W filed 8/05/15 D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas, W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16
