Rich, you need to stop playing this role of a victim. Refuse it! No matter who lives where.......you will come through this and will build a new life. Get rid of the attitude that she's going to be living it up in a good neighborhood, enjoying all the luxuries, while you are a homeless bum on the streets. Get your focus off that kind of vision b/c it will turn you into a very bitter old man who nobody wants to be around. Find a healthy way to vent that anger.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
