This weekend was setback, she dragged me into story of buying her an apartment and I offered her to pay for rent or half rent for some time for her to separate.

Right now I am in anger phase, I just want her out of picture so I can continue with my life, and she is using child as leverage, threatening that she will take child with her to bring guilt to me as bad father. Not sure if I want to continue with DB or just want divorce...

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room