Sorry I have not been around for a while. I needed to just zone out for a while and clear my head, after my brain snap! WAW asked to dinner last night (she paid) and spoke a bit about what happened, i told her straight why I did it. She seemed to accept it. She started on the want to be friends thing again and said she would like to do things together again, i said nothing and just listened. Earlier in the day she took me up to the kindergarten she runs and showed me the new farm garden the owners had built, i have had a lot to do with the place over the years and two of my daughters work there, and their children attend so i still have an interest in the place! I looked around and fed the chooks. I tried to be as pleasent as I could at dinner, and listened to what she had to say. I am not sure what prompted her to do this, my divorce statement, or an incident she had with OM last week. She went out clubbing with Collegues from work this included one of my daughters and OM's daughter, who ended up getting drunk and going to hospital to have her stomach pumped, WW told me OM sent her a nasty text blaming them for not looking after her, i was told they tried to get her to leave but she refused. This would be the first instance of OM showing his true colors. When WW dropped me home she said to make sure I call her to do stuff, i just said thanks for dinner and I will think about it. My children are not inviting her to many thing either, and she is feeling left out. She did say she only wanted friendship and to do things together , but she still did not want a relationship again. I'm not falling for it, i think shes temp checking and cake eating. How should i handle it?
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)
