A new way of thinking 2

[Vanilla]

My darling this is about control, getting control back.

I am sad to say that it's not you Anc or a proper M, it's the control he had over Anc, his home and his family.

He wants his crazy loco script of a happy ending with his OW and 100% of the assets and his W penniless and in jail and then at his mums.

He wants his image as a good man, he wants his kids to hate their mum, he wants control, and all things his way.

Don't fall for it, it's not about you.

I understand the sadness, please pour it out, feel it, acknowledge the confusion.

Next comes the anger, enjoy that.

This is the road to freedom, it's the Kubler Ross grief cycle.

Ton of big hugs

V