Thanks for sharing the success story, Rain. And for Pink for pointing it out. That Pink, she's one great lady. I've been reading her thread tonight.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
To324's situation sounded pretty bleak too but she made it through.
And no matter where you move, you'll still have us here and there.
I am feeling pretty bleak too. But I try not to think too much about it. The recent lice saga has sapped so much of my energy that I dont seem to have any left to worry too much about TP and the X.
Think of your lovely kid. You're a strong and gorgeous lady and I am sure there are many more exciting adventures in life waiting for you.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
(((Gmum))) I said it before and I will continue to say it until you believe me. Only you can decide when you M is done. I hear you and believe you when you said he has been angry and resentful for a long time. I wont argue with you. But you attracted him at one time for some reason and that piece of you is still there. You guys will have a forever connection. He cant really forever get rid of you. You have a forever chance to turn things around. This ends when you say it ends. It is not up to him. Your M is up to you. Your life is up to you. If you want to live in the USA, that is up to you. Go through the process. Learn a valuable skill, I can show you hacking, lol
You whole world has been ripped apart painfully. You get to piece it back together any way you want. It only takes baby steps every day in the right direction to gain momentum to reach your destination. But you HAVE to dream your destination before anything can happen.
Every single person here is dying to help you dream your destination, because you are so young and have the whole world at your feet. Your H does not get to decide anything for you now. It is 100% up to you.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
I read something many years ago, when I was attempting to win back a boy. It went something like " why do we become concerned when an ex comes back into our partners life...the answer is simply that we worry about the reconnection and the reattraction that can happen through contact and close proximity, we worry that love and attraction are not ever forgotten and can be re-ignited".
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
I read something many years ago, when I was attempting to win back a boy. It went something like " why do we become concerned when an ex comes back into our partners life...the answer is simply that we worry about the reconnection and the reattraction that can happen through contact and close proximity, we worry that love and attraction are not ever forgotten and can be re-ignited"
Then why, oh why can't I attract H now? She lives 5 hrs away and I am HERE in the same town less than a mile away from him. I must have lost my touch because he avoids me like the plague.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
