[BrightFuture]

Job, thank you, as always, for your wise advice. It does help to keep me grounded. Quite often I have similar thoughts, but when it comes from you, it really means that I’m on the right track.

I do put the deadlines when I have them. The car insurance renewal is not due until April, so I have time, so does H. He can find himself a new insurance or send me the mileage. Either way, I will be fine. I will just pay the bill and let him know his portion if I don’t hear from him until then. I’m pretty confident that he will either pay me his portion of the bill, or cancels his portion of the policy. I just find it interesting that this year it seems to be more of a struggle for him to make up his mind. BTW, I still has not received any info, whether the mileage on his cars, or a note about him not continuing with this policy.

Mleigh, yes, I think there is time when you approach the crossroads and you have to make a decision. It doesn’t mean that the roads cannot cross again in the future. But, for now, we need to go our own way and do what is best for us and our kids.