B's 10-Week Bootcamp

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B
i am on the NC thing as well. [censored]. My feelings are the same as yours earlier, how W hasn't once asked anything or seem to care. I liked Foggs answers. we really dont know what is going on. She could be completely gone or she could also be a wreck. No way to know.

I do think the NC is your path right now. But i think you need to make sure you are working on when there is contact. Zzz hits it often about do or say nothing. It makes al the difference in not making things worse at least.

I am very reactive and fight to make sure I am this way. It is why went NC. If i am focusing on not contacting then i can't really mess up.