Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

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OM is a work A in my situation also. Seems very common, unfortunately.
Also, I don't know if Tx is accurate on the 5 to 1 ratio, but there are an incredible amount of available women over 40.
This whole experience has opened my eyes to a world I had never noticed. When you are married, you tend to hang out and be friends with married people. Now, I'm seeing the other side.
Women at the gym, old HS friends, friends, friends of friends... They all have someone that they want to hook you up with.
It will be a little while until I'm in the right frame of mind for that, but the possibilities are encouraging.
Tx, when the time comes for me to finally blow off the steam, I'll let you know and give you a heads up. You may need an umbrella, even in Texas.