Zues, you gorgeous human being. You and I are not that far away from each other. You dear friend are far more eloquant, than I am at describing DBing in action. I am a complete novice.
Ladybr you are fortunate enough to have two have posters that can likely cover the gamet of the Dbing experience. Zues is a Dbing pro and he understands the intricancies and naunces of detachment and how to stand without feeling like you are sacrificing your soul and life. His commitment to commitment, allows him to give creative advice about how to get you want you want, which is your H and your marriage, while keeping yourself intact.
My strength is likely the recovery process from the damaging relationship dymanics and other opportunistic life experiences (mental health issues) that impact on functioning and making a healthy relationship work.
Take what you will from both of us, because either way Zues and I are on the same team. We're on team Ladybr, and we want you to have the best M possible.
Jellyxxx
PS: Feel free to test my thinking any day! It's privilege!
