Oh and forgot to add that "best for his kids" wasn't suggesting he is being a bad dad, just that I truly, whole heartedly believe that unless a S is physically beating his/her S and kids then children are better off having their parents together under one roof. I really do not think that all this swapping between each parent's home several times a week is good. If someone asked me if I would want to swap homes every few days I know what my answer would be...it would be a resounding "NO!" and I'm sure that children feel the same - they just don't get given the choice!
