Because I know we could have a great relationship if we both put our minds to it. Because it is best for his kids.
even here I see judgment and criticism...if we "both" put our minds to it in this context to me suggests that he hasn't...shame on him...and the "best for HIS kids" suggests he's being a bad dad...shame on him again...
Do you see it?
Actually, the "both" bit referred to me! I know that I have not done my share of making things better because of the pain I've been in from his EA/PA. Not excusing myself, but that was the reason. I just felt that he broke the trust so he should be the one to fix it. Not saying that is right but it's how I felt at the time.
