My gut tells me he's not coming back though. We've been unhappy for too long and he has so much anger and resentment towards me. And his affair is too hot and passionate to crash and burn any time soon. But it would have ended even if there was no OW. He's been building up to it. She was just the final nail in the coffin.
NYGal, I I feel the same way. I can't believe I have to move in a week and then again in six months to a different country. I feel for you, but there is so much hope in your situation. I can't offer you any advice, Wonka and Azzork's got that covered, but I just have a very positive feeling regarding you and your W. Try to stay positive, remember what you put out there is what you get back. Easier said than done, I know. I'm certainly not a ray of sunshine today.
