Flight thank you for your input. Yes, you are correct, I did let her know that it was the wrong decision and I do not see her much anymore. We only have contact to discuss the refinance and the divorce papers. It is very addictive behavior and I do have concerns for her, but have been GAL and feeling much better the last few days. Got out of the house everyday, things are heading in a good direction for me. Also got a counselor and a divorce support group that I go to weekly. Thanks again for all your help / advice, more input is certainly welcome.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
