Because I know we could have a great relationship if we both put our minds to it. Because it is best for his kids.
even here I see judgment and criticism...if we "both" put our minds to it in this context to me suggests that he hasn't...shame on him...and the "best for HIS kids" suggests he's being a bad dad...shame on him again...
Do you see it?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15