Inpain...my situation is very similar to yours, and I too struggle with knowing the right balance. It's been almost 19 months since BD for me and we are one signature away from D being final, but H is "unsure." There has been a lot of back and forth on his part. One minute we're over, but when I go to take steps to move out and move on, he presses pause again and "needs more time." It's very frustrating.
