I live near the X and have met him with the OW a couple of times before and after the D. As we work in the same profession, I will probably have to meet them in the course of work as well. It svcks big time. But I am not going to change jobs because of them.
I will, however, move somewhere further, so that I will not have to suffer the indignity of bumping into them while they are out enjoying themselves.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.