Quote: Is it fair to risk my kids being without a home to provide free transportation/cell phone service to someone who's capable of getting a paying job?
No it's not. I think you are missing my intentions with you. I am not saying that you should continue to support him financially. I'm simply questioning whether or not this is reason to divorce?
If he is capable of paying his hockey dues then he's capable of paying his cell bill (and if he has to pay it himself perhaps he wont ring it up so high. and btw why the hell is his cell bill so damn high anyway?) and his truck payment.
There is no reason you should have to pay his bills if he is capable of getting and holding down a job but you've made the choice to do so all along on your own. You can't blame other people for your niceness. You can choose not to continue paying his bills. You can also choose how you go about getting to that point.
