Thanks:) I needed that reminder. I've been rereading through the 37 and his thread.
Rough night last night, son came into my room around 430-5 woke me up and started asking me questions. Why wasn't mom sleeping with me anymore? How come she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore?... I just said idk and then told him I loved him. He stayed with me but I couldn't go back to sleep. I'm not sure how to handle that. Through all this I keep telling my kids I love them and try to build thier self confidence as much as I can. I'm being extra patient which I can see a mirror when she catches herself being short.
Tried to get out a bit today. This morning d tells me she has a bday party but w never mentioned it. Shortly after w comes upstairs and d tells her. She says no were supposed to meet other kids this afternoon (didn't tell me that either) and told her to pick one. I asked why and said I already told her I'd take her. Stayed for a bit then went to test drove a new car (company owner told me it was time to replace my company car yesterday!, didn't tell w) before going back towards the end. I tried to go to the library when w had kids later but her friend that I think pushes her in all this was in the self help section so I ended up leaving and kept busy walking the dogs, cleaning, and baked a cake with d later on.
W has avoided me outside the presence of the kids since telling her I won't stand for it. I don't know if I should tell her again since nothing else has been said and she seems to be avoiding me.
She's also making it hard to DB as I think she may be trying to make me jealous or angry. Tonight She told me she was wearing the dress I mentioned in an older post to a company banquet next week out of town where she's getting an award (I've told her how hot she looks in it before all this) and she also told me about a young guy at work hitting on her but then said, eww gross.
She also told me all her plans for next week, where she was staying, who she was riding with, etc. without me bringing it up.
