Trumpet, I'm so sorry I didn't have a chance to read or post until now. I can only imagine what you went through after being served.
But here's the thing-I don't think it changes your plans any. Keep working on yourself and support your kids. Keep posting and getting support here. I can't say I know where this is going for you, but please stay true to your heart
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou