I think it is actually a self worth thing. I am a good person, stable, employed and attractive.
Then you'll be just fine. Better than fine. You'll be beating the ladies off with a stick. You have so much going for you. If she takes that for granted then that is her loss. Good luck to her navigating all the losers out there because that's mostly what it is.
Originally Posted By: dday
If xw would rather blow up our family and our kids future, then the "new" her is not someone that I want to share my life with.
I wish more people would get this. You're way ahead of the curve since you do.
Originally Posted By: dday
Last night, went to ballgame. Went to see S9 at his slumber party thing, didn't really even speak to xw. Left there and went to a buddy's. Ended up sleeping on his couch after drinking and playing cards until 4am. It was fun. Haven't laughed so much in a long time. And, there were 2 single ladies there that I talked to. (No, not pursuing anything.) Just nice to chat with a pretty girl that has no clue of my sitch, and no preconceived ideas about me. Today, I have been very lazy. Tomorrow, I am going to go put flooring down with my friend, I think.
Awesome moving on my man. The worm has definitely turned for you. Life can be sad and depressing or fun and wonderful. Your choice.