If that was agreed upon between you and your H, then that's fine. We have no such agreement; he was to pay the car payment and cell phone every month. He'll say that he has no money when there are several $100 bills in his wallet. He wants a Hummer, a boat, and a plane. Yet doesn't feel obligated to get a consistently paying job.
He has promised over and over to contribute but never does so. I never promised to "take care" of him. I don't make enough to pay all household expenses plus cover his expenses also. I've refinanced my house and taken money from my retirement to make ends meet over the last few years, while he's done nothing.
