Quote: you can't rationally base a decision on whether or not a person should disovle their marraige based on what you hear from just one of them.
Now, lostlove. You're talking to Hairdog, here. When has rationality ever entered into any of the advice I give here? All my advice is worth exactly what the taker has paid for it. I'm not a professional counselor, just an average, HD guy.
And COGal, understand that my advice to you is not unbiased. Maybe I'm just trying to break up your marriage so that there's one more unattached babe out there if I ever end up single again.