More support from me, Trumpet. I know getting served was a dagger in the heart. Let me say this... "Zeus is right, Zeus is right, Zeus is right" wink Detach and assume the marriage is over and you are moving on. If something changes in the future, so be it.

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Would I leave my wife at the hospital with cancer?


I know it seems noble to fight for your marriage, but if we really are honest with ourselves, we are fighting out of fear of loss. This isn't a question of standing by someone that is ill, she doesn't have a disease, she willfully and logically made choices that suited her. The question should more, "Why would I want to fight for somoene who treats me with such disrespect and says they don't want me anymore"

Be free of her emotionally and see where you get in the next few months. Be well!

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling