I haven't contributed financially to my household for close to five years and don't see myself starting any time soon. Should my h leave me based on that fact alone? What if his friends wife works and makes more than her h and thinks I'm leaching off of him and should go get a job even if only part time at nights to contribute?
I'm not trying to beat you up but I'm sure it feels that way. I'm just trying to make sure you are not making a mistake you've already been down the divorce road is this a pattern you want to continue? Is this a long term solution to a short term problem?
If he got a full time job next week and started contributing to your household (how would that work anyway then wouldn't part of it be his too?) or at least his own vehicle and cell phone (wich btw I don't pay for either) Would that be enough?
