It really is a war inside myself. Not sure if it would accomplish anything, but there are legal remedies in my state against the OM, and I am tempted to bring suit against him just on principle.
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling