I hear the pain there. Been through that stage myself. I would not do it. Right at BD, I contacted WW's best friend. Terrible idea. It showed my pursuit first of all. Second, I did not hear anything that I really wanted to hear and just felt worse as you predict. Third, my WW was infuriated that I contacted her friend behind her back. Just let it be.
I would not assume she is having the best day of her life. When I think of WW, I think she could be having the best day of her life, she could be completely miserable, or anywhere in between. I just honestly have no idea and it seems like you do not either. So why assume anything?
Go do something to take your mind off of her for a few if you can. Some pushups work for me.
