Julie, that is really a big breakthrough. Wow, this is huge. I got an "almost ILY" when H said a month or so ago "I wouldn't be here if there wasn't some love left."
But the change in HIS communication- that means a lot. That means he is doing his own work! We all know that you are working hard Julie, but if you both are working on your own ends, that is the best scenario.
I hear you about MC, that I don't think helped us. This forum has helped me the most, and I think family therapy was second. MC and IC was questionable.
You never know, he could be one of the newbies posting here on this forum and getting some good advice. I wonder how many times that has happened?
