He loves me he loves me not

[JulieH]

Fo, technically it wasn't a real ILY. More of a I drew it out, where he admitted that he still did, But it was there and we laughed about it and we laughed about his inability to openly communicate it. Kind of like " ditto"

The tone during this was totally different though. The resentment and anger was absent and back was our ability to laugh at ourselves...something missing for a long time.

I think we both need to just keep the anger and resentment and following criticism at bay now. Something I fear counseling will bring forth (like it did the first time we went)