I met with my counselor today; H didn't show even though he was aware of the appointment. Counselor was very upfront about the fact that H is a player. The moving out, seeing me, walking away, and having me break down in tears each time is all part of his "game" according to her. She said that there absolutely should be no taking him back, regardless of what he promises.
Given that, do I owe him any notice before doing the following:
1) Cancelling the cell phone (in my name) that he uses. I'll end up paying a $200 early termination fee. However, I'll also have to pay charges if he suddenly decides to quit paying as a part of his "game." He is always past due on the account. I found out today that he had extended the contract for 3 years when he told me that he would close the account when the contract ended in Sept. 04...a complete lie per the Nextel agent.
2) Having the truck repossessed (financed in my name) that he drives. He's promised to make the payments, however, the March one hasn't been made yet; the grace period ends on Fri. The counselor says that his lying is part of his "game" and that he will not keep making the payments. I cannot afford them on my own, given that he's left me with everything else to cover.
3) Dropping him from my car insurance. I'm certainly not willing to foot the bill for that. However, the car is financed and must be insured.
I really don't give a damn about whether any of this causes difficulty for him; he hasn't cared about me having to cover everything for the last few years. The thing is that I am a nice person and want to do what's right. He just wants to play his "game." Does that invalidate providing him with some notice of what I intend to do?
We own nothing jointly and have been married for less than 2 years. I owned my house (first jointly with my ex and then alone) since 1986.
