It's all blowing up

[rich4j]

Voice of reason..thanks LITB. Sounds from a place of experience

I stood tall. I need to put emotion in the belly and breathe. When she brings up the daughter my Irish gets going and all signs point to protect. There are things from the past that got us to this point that I own and have told her I own but that IS THE PAST. She is moving on becuz of the past so I told her don't rehash as I am well aware of the issues and can only move forward.

I am not moving out . She can hit me with a bat each day if she wants but not moving.

this 2 + feet of snow is not helping things either. I don't sense this coming back around anytime soon so I have been trying to detach and now need to set up boundries too which I will re-read.

Keep safe if you are in the NorthEast today.