Hi Peace - thanks so much for posting all that your h said. It is so helpful to those who follow. Of course, it seems to be what all the vets tell us it is. But, nonetheless, it still shocking, to me, that MLC is so very real. It was so painful to read that he had to lose everything to see what he had. They really do need to spiral down to that "rock bottom."
I have to give you tremendous credit for your kindness and the graciousness you showed your h. Your h's actions will show themselves but I hope that his words will give you the chance to continue to seal up your wounds.
You are a very good person.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced