Originally Posted By: NYGal
I'm sure this is confusing, but I'd love to hear good night my love once, just once. I guess W confuses me by telling me that OW is a nutcase. What the heck?? It keeps me hanging on. Is this what they mean by cake eating??


NYG remember that this is not the 1st BD for us. After the 1st one he was very cold to me. This was over a year ago. He was codial, polite but his texts were very business like. Even after we got back together it continued.

This is more recent, maybe a few months before BD in December and he has amped it up big time the last few weeks.

And if there was any substance behind his words I would be happy to be getting the texts too. But his actions do not match his words.

And mine went so far as to call ow a slut and said he wasn't talking to her because of this or that. Basically things he supposedly finds unattractive....all the time deep deep deep in the EA.

I'm not saying that's the wase with your W tho. As similar as they all seem to be they all do crazy in their very own way.