Great to hear you doing it for you.

I too make furniture and was in a rut this last year even before BD.

First thing I did when she moved out is I made a living room coffee table. Cut the tree myself. Felt great finishing it just before XMas. Working on the end tables now.


Think about you my friend.

If you were on a plane and it was going down.... What do you do first? Safety mask on your wife, your kids, the guy next to you... No. You take care of yourself to be able to take care of others after.

Grow from this and your kids will draw strength from you and vice versa. No matter how it turns out and trust me I want you and your wife together.. You will be a better person and father.

Let her feel the concequeces of her choices. It will get worse before it gets better. Don't watch the train wreck.


Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015