The Start of my Happiness 2

[Irish M]

Tyler
I read your sitch as I do so many. Helps me get stronger and to fully understand this craziness... If that's possible. I wish none of us had to live this.

I think you are doing well. Can you do better? hell yes. We all can.
You are definitely not detached. You take one step forward and 2 steps back.

It's not easy I know. I made huge mistakes before and even after finding this site.

You said your W is nice while other situations you read the W is mean to the LBS
No sitch is the same. Mine is probably one of the worst here due to the fact she has emotionally hurt my D's and hasn't seen them in nearly 7 months. I have learned that it's the WAW, WW, MLC or whatever that dictates what she does or says. You only feed into it. You need to step away.

I wouldn't offer her supper, I would put that shelf unit that you restored in your house, I would focus on you and your kids.
Let her have her journey.

I think from when you started here and up until now, I can sense you are stronger than you think.

Irish