Two reflections:

I need to see a solicitor.

I could propose that I leave the house - separate . It might buy some time. In the UK either H or W can file for D after a 2 year physical separation.

It seems my not separating forced her into a corner and left her 3 choices - reconcile, live in limbo or file for D - she chose D.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16