I could propose that I leave the house - separate . It might buy some time. In the UK either H or W can file for D after a 2 year physical separation.
It seems my not separating forced her into a corner and left her 3 choices - reconcile, live in limbo or file for D - she chose D.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16