Great paraphrase, MB! I certainly understand how painful the confusion can be. The two months I spent waiting to see who W would pick were excruciating. Every time I saw her I thought she would pick me. Pick me, pick me!! It was pitiful. I do crave a goodnight text or a few words of encouragement, or one of our old terms of endearment. But I don't expect that, and it would probably grab me by the throat and hold me there. I don't have the strength yet to fend that sort of thing off yet. So Rain, if you can stay strong and keep your wits about you, I admire that!

Give him a taste of his own medicine!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat