Went to the game, sat where the group chose, which was about 6 rows behind W and to the right. No sign of OW anywhere, but I didn't spend much time looking around the arena. There was an empty seat just behind W, who was sitting with all our mutual friends. So I decided it was time to go down there and say hi to the peeps. I strode down there, tapped a few shoulders, got hugs and high fives and smiles all around. I tapped W on the shoulder and she turned around. Looked a little tense. Said, "I wondered if you'd be here." Then proceeded to ask me about house stuff -- specifically the email I never responded to. Then friends right next to her turned around to tell me about their recent trip, and I could tell W wanted to say more to me. She had to wait. More stupid house stuff. She asked who I was there with. Then she mentioned something about the half-time presentation -- which she was a part of. When she got up to do the presentation, I stayed a few more minutes, then went back to my seat with the people I came with. I watched her come off the floor, and she didn't once look up to see where I was. Sigh. When she came back to her seat she was texting a lot, but she always does that, so I didn't worry too much about whether or not she was texting OW. She seemed very happy with her friends, but so did I with mine. Who knows what's really up? That was that.
Then I went out for a beer and some food with the people I came with. It was nice and I did a great job of GALing. I did enjoy myself, even if part of it was acting as if.
I don't think I cried today, which might be the first time in 2.5 months. I have plans for the rest of the weekend. And there's another game on Sunday. But I think I'll skip it. I made my appearance, and now I have better things to do. Maybe.

Can't wait to hear about MB's night out!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat