I wonder what would have happened if I grew a pair and made a stand right after BD. As most of us were, I was a mess and tried to appease her.
You probably would have nipped all this in the bud and she would respect you as her husband and leader of the family. You probably wouldn't be here at all. Coulda shoulda woulda. Don't feel bad. Most,of us F it up. I know I did. When the worm turned for me was when I found my nads and put a stop to this madness. I'll never be a weak male in my house ever again. Wives don't respect weak husbands. They treat them like a joke and cheat on them. My wife talked a lot of sh!t about divorce until I got tired of it and filed. That fixed everything.
