Hi gmum, if she asks, then be honest. Or if you're feeling brave, you could ask her what she knows about the reason about the divorce. But I feel that your mil would have put 2 and 2 together, even if H didn't tell her the whole truth.

You could thank her though for the love and help she's given you. She sounds like a lovely lady and I am sure she does feel bad about your situation.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.