Wife wants to separate

[G8r]

Hi excile101. I don't have any advice for your questions because I have many of the same. So let me say that I hear you and feel your pain. I haven't been served but it is only a matter of time. I wasn't addicted to porn but my addiction to pot played a big role in our lack of intimacy and now she doesn't want to try anymore because she is soooooo fearful of being hurt anymore.

I wish you the best and hope things work out for you the way you would like.

Actually I do have 1 piece of advice. If she has filed and has a L, you need to contact one yourself to protect yourself.