D14 was really upset when W got home. I was out shopping, thankfully.

Lots of yelling from what D14 said, yelling at mom.

I got chinese, and ate with the kids. Wife is upstairs crying in what is now HER bedroom. I will be getting my morning/shower stuff out of the master bath into the kid's bath.

I don't want to be around her tonight. Yet, I need to go upstairs and do a catechism lesson. Get this - tonight's lesson is the 7th Commandment - adultry. Lovely. God has a great sense of timing, doesn't he?

Maybe I should do it in front of the wife - trying not to, I think that wouldn't be taking the high road.

Work tomorrow, then home, then off to the company holiday party - they moved it to January last year, as rates I think were better, and can celebrate another year in the car biz. Just me this year, but I'm going to make sure I look my best.

Sunday I take the kids to church.

Gotta work out in there, too. So, I'll stay busy, and let the wife sit and think about what she's done.

Class and poise. No anger. Just business right now.

I'll lay off barking up the phone/tech/software tree right now.

Thoughts on an injunction to remove her from the house? Anyone have luck with that?
Or should I just see if the bird will leave the cage?


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)