That must have been a violent cough. I'm glad you're okay and you have a sense of humor about it.
I've thought about serving my W but it's usually when I'm angry and not thinking straight. In fact, I think my anger and resentment have been the biggest thing pushing her away from me. This is one of the things I'm trying to improve to make myself someone a wife would be foolish to walk away from. I'm not saying that your choice was based on emotion because I don't know, it's just my humble opinion. I hope you have made the right choice for yourself. Be well. I hope things work out the way you would like them to.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016