Hi Wet,
I'm sending {{{hugs}}} and condolences. It sounds as though your father's passing was peaceful and loving, with the support of his family around him. That's a beautiful gift to give someone as they pass over.

I'm glad you were able to share your experience with your niece. Nice that you were able to bond at such a difficult time.

Congratulations on the baby! It always seems to work that way doesn't it, the circle of life? When my godfather passed our son was three weeks old. My godfather was like a second dad to me, and I'd had pretty much primary responsibility for his care his last three years. A new baby at this time renews hope in the future. The fact that the due date is right after your father's birthday is most certainly a Godincidence!

regarding wife's request for alone time before the funeral ... is there any way you can simply put her off? The day is about your dad and your family. Focus should be on that ... at least that's what I think, but I'm probably a. overstepping by saying so and b. being over-protective of you, lol

If either is the case, I apologize.

Again, keeping all of you in my prayers.
xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver