He loves me he loves me not

[JulieH]

His idea is for me to drive out to meet him somewhere, so he does not have to come to house and pick them up...this way I have to be the one to pack up the car and deal with a screaming child that does not want to go.

Also I look like the bad guy because I am the one "giving him a away" no?

I did not want this. I begged husband to reconsider a long time ago. Why do I have to enable and be the one to implement his decision to split up kids.

I am sorry in advance. I know how much worse this is for you guys that were left behind and only have 50% or. 30% time with your kids and I know how spoiled I sound. But to me this is a huge injustice and what he is asking is unfair.