It's all blowing up

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She isn't going to be honest with you. It isn't worth asking her. If something is going on and you keep asking her, she will take it deeper underground.

Who goes out of town every other weekend?

What kind of work does she do that she is unable to tell you about her project?

Does she hide her phone or keep it close to her?

Be observant and don't ask her about what she is up to.

...and set your boundaries. You know what your rights are, based on your consult with the L.

What did you learn from your consultation?

This will probably get more difficult, before it gets easier. DB'ing takes practice. It is a new way of life. It isn't limited to the words; "divorce busting". It applies to other relationships.

Also be patient. Not only with your sitch, but be patient with yourself. You'll make mistakes along the way. Not a big deal. There is no teacher like experience. Dust yourself off and keep going.